When I step back and think, he only has one pair of shoes. How many do we have? Because he can't talk, we forget he may want a choice of shoes. I beat myself up when I figure things out. You can bet I am going to buy him a pair of flip flops ASAP. Communication is our biggest feat. I think most all of aggression comes from lack of it. We are going to start giving him more choices in more than food and drink. I am so blessed by the little things. I am thanking The Lord for the reminder.